Sunday, February 13, 2011

Am I as important?

Yes I asked myself this question so many times while shopping with my aunty and elder sister were moving from one garment shop to another for preparing some dresses for my wedding. OH God. The occasion is expected in November. And we had been strolling for more than 3 hours in market for the prepration.Both of them; my aunty and sister were continuously talking about my dresses and the color that suit s me most. What kind of style I should follow. I myself was looking at every dress with a prospect that how it will look at me.Even when we came back from this shopping venture and were sitting at auntie’s home.my cousin brother also took part in the preparation of my dresses. He was so concerned that would suit Arooj and that wouldn’t.

I was confused whether it’s me who is important or the occasion.

‘’The moment your parents send their daughter way makes her that much important.

Though, throughout my life I have experienced sheer importance of myself in almost every kind of gathering. Yet this importance is getting bitter for me.

I don’t know why…..After sorting out this query, will soon discuss with my respected friends.

7 comments:

Bikramjit said...

hmmm i guess the idea of leaving home .. beginning of a new life is probably making it bitter ..

BUt hey dont worry ALL THE BEST for the wedding and here's wishing you all the best for the new life and I am sure you will have lots of fun.. Enjoyyyy

Bikram's

Joseph Pulikotil said...

Hi,

I suppose all parents and close relatives would like the bride to be looking like an angel from heaven on the wedding day and it is not surprising that so much preparation and discussion goes on in the selection of the wedding dress. The family's prestige,pride and importance are also involved in how the daughter looks at the time of the wedding. They take so much trouble,so much time and are ready to spend huge amount of money for the wedding dress. In Kochi wedding saree show rooms are special places and always very crowded.

Best wishes,
Joseph

Tabitha Bird said...

Enjoy. It is you that is important, but it is also easy to get lost in the importantness... if you know what I mean. Others loose you. you loose yourself.

Remember to enjoy.

Kali said...

First of all- Congratulations :) Hope you have a very content and happy life ahead!
But they seem so concerned about you! Especially your brother's worries :P Just enjoy the process. take care!

covnitkepr1 said...

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Jack said...

H M,

It is you who is important as they are not just talking of wedding but you. Best of luck for days to come. We too had got married in Nov and it is going to be 40 years now.

Take care

Himanshu said...

hi dont want to write much except one thing
when ur query get solved let me know too.....plz...