Sorry!


ooopppsss!!!! I am sorry


This is one of the most widely and frequently uttered sentences:''I am sorry''.One utters this sentence without having been really sorry and we receive this word without even getting conformed that the person just said this word is really feeling sorry or not.

Neither the person saying sorry really feel sorry nor the person listening this sorry take it seriously.

So the Sorry is the word taking for granted .Then why we use this word at all?

Wait a minute!!!!!Do not you feel that this small word carrying five alphabet:S.O.R.RY. shows our concern for each other.though we are not really feeling sorry,though we are not begging forgiveness,though we are not really excusing .Still we spend a fraction of second of our precious time to say this word....so my dear fellows keep on saying SOrry and keep realizing the people around that u still consider their existence.

Comments

Rahul Bhatia said…
True! Without meaning it, just uttering does not help:)
May 11, 2012 at 2:04 AM
Meera Sundararajan said…
You are right.. we say and do so many things mechanically! Why say sorry if we do not mean it ?
May 14, 2012 at 5:30 AM
Lynda R Young as Elle Cardy said…
Well said. It's so true we often say words but they are empty of meaning.
May 14, 2012 at 10:53 PM
Christine said…
What a simple but deep post.
Sorry, a word taken for granted. You have shead a light on this word.
May 15, 2012 at 5:25 PM
Purvi said…
i totally agree with you..we do need to keep saying sorries :) :)
May 16, 2012 at 4:10 AM
Jack said…
Arooj,

We should not desist from saying sorry but make sincere efforts to feel so also.

Take care
May 16, 2012 at 5:49 AM
Aishwarya said…
yea..most times we just say it to be polite and courteous. ( AT least at the work place)
May 16, 2012 at 8:27 AM
Ruchi Jain said…
everybody says i am sorry , but does it matters actually ? i had seen " zindagi na milegi dobara" where farhan akhtar once said to his father jab dil se nikle tab bolna sorry..
May 17, 2012 at 4:08 AM
zingtrial said…
There's an old saying in English: ‘Manners maketh man'. It means that having good manners, or being polite to other people, will make you a successful and admirable person.
Saying sorry doesn’t mean there isn’t guilt and forgiving doesn’t mean the pain is gone.
Doomed are the hotheads! Unhappy are they who lose their cool and are too proud to say, ”I’m sorry.”
Never ruin an apology with an excuse.

http://islamicchildrenstudy.blogspot.co.uk/
June 5, 2012 at 7:49 AM
Bikram said…
yes mam point noted, but i do think sometimes people use the word sorry too much and just fo the sake of it ..

as you say one should mean it when they say sorry ..

Bikram's
June 6, 2012 at 9:35 AM
goatman said…
Very nice quote, and the picture so well goes with it.
Reflections may show our true selves.
June 20, 2012 at 10:12 AM
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