Irrecoverable

Love at first sight, everyone must have heard this (though not all do believe in it). But did you ever hear trust at first sight. The answer would be a ‘’ No’’.Why so?

A emotion of love, a certainly most strong emotion emerges in a flesh on the other hand trust which is also a feeling requires an ample duration to get built up. And even after taking so much time it could shake down in a moment. I pray for all of you that your trust may never get hurt.


Comments

Bikram said…
Amen to that .. yeah trust broken can really kill a person ..

been through that that wy they say
Yaari and GAddari main kaafi kam farak hai..
meaning there is very little space between frienship and Betrayal..

Bikram's
January 13, 2011 at 8:23 AM
Kali said…
But its impossible to live without trust isn't it? So, its a decision that takes courage. You had the courage to believe, that matters too.
January 13, 2011 at 8:29 AM
S.A.L. said…
Probably a feeling of trust at first meeting happens. I don't believe in love at first sight. It's not love, probably it's something else. I think love is something which grows through time and attachment. I think trust is love and vise versa.
January 13, 2011 at 8:31 AM
Christopher said…
There is also a certain amount of logic to trusting someone. It's more with the brain than the heart I think. It might be flawed logic sometimes, but its a kind of logic nonetheless.
January 13, 2011 at 4:53 PM
Arooj said…
@BIkramjut
you are right
jo jitna bra dost hota hay utna hi bra dushmn bhi
January 14, 2011 at 8:41 AM
Sakshi said…
Amen! And I really hope that no one ever faces a day of broken trust.. it shakes the faith that you have!
January 14, 2011 at 8:56 AM
Meera Sundararajan said…
Yes trust that is broken can be terrible. About love at first sight- I dont think such a thing exists. But love and trust are kind of related....! You love someone you instinctively trust them. Good reflection!
January 17, 2011 at 7:28 AM
Meera Sundararajan said…
Yes trust that is broken can be terrible. About love at first sight- I dont think such a thing exists. But love and trust are kind of related....! You love someone you instinctively trust them. Good reflection!
January 17, 2011 at 7:39 AM
Arooj said…
@ Sakshi
exactly

@meerasrajan
that's what my point was all about.
Both are feelings and related but trust really needs ample time to get built itself.

@Mind Writer
appreciate your response

@Christopher
Oh i really missed this point''logic'..yup that is the major reason that differs one feeling from other.

@Kali
its really like a curse.
January 17, 2011 at 7:42 AM
Tabitha Bird said…
I think if you live in this world long enough your trust will get broken. The key is in picking up the piece I guess.
January 17, 2011 at 1:46 PM
blommer22 said…
trust - once it's broken, it's irrecoverable.

trust is like a mirror, although it can be fixed after being broken, you still can see the cracks on the reflections somehow.
January 17, 2011 at 5:51 PM
dr.antony said…
There is no love at first sight,only infatuation.
January 19, 2011 at 6:42 AM
Arooj said…
@ Tabitha Bird
such a different angle you purposed.:-)
@Blommr22
exactly

@dr.antony
mature comment..:-)
January 19, 2011 at 10:27 AM
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