Sunday, October 18, 2009

No!


Sorry I can’t carry on.


No! Don’t you listen what I just said: NOOoooo!


In daily life affairs, our dealings, meetings and conversation suddenly change their direction and adopt a new path just because of this ‘’No’’.Sometimes we don’t find any way to deal with certain matters and we have to say No. But, sometimes, our lazy nature compels us to escape out and we by the way say ‘’No’’. This single word not only shows simply denial but also shows that we are just refusing to help someone out; we are refusing to create some new relations; we are refusing to enter some new dynamic phase of life. This Single No keeps us away from starting a hell of new enterprises. We think that this No can save us from any sort of tough time. We don’t have to proof anything after saying No. We don’t have to opt any job .we feel that to say NO is very easy .we can use this ‘No ’as a token of excuse.
This is not the matter that yes can solve every kind of problem. But if we become accustomed of saying No; the inevitable coward ingredients of human nature starts exploiting it for its own purposes and makes a man to reject each and every opportunity, friends and relationships offered by life and keep him stagnant within mere slots.

Brave people have the courage to say ‘’yes’’ and then accept the following challenges without presenting any kind of excuse in form of this pathetic word ‘’No’’.

12 comments:

Rishi said...

well said, but certain facets remain... negativity and cowardice aren't that bad... US secret service survives on both and does quite a brilliant job... even ninjas were known to adopt it at difficult times...

Heavenly Muse said...

@ Rishi
true.....i just didnt consider US secret service..u are right sir,,,:-)

Sakshi said...

'No' is the easiest word that has ever been coined. But, it is also very important. We often, keep on saying 'YES' all the time and getting ourselves into all sorts of trouble.
Its not about being negative, or positive- Its about the correct usage of that term in the correct place.

Fantasies of a Lifetime said...

"But it is my favourite word !!:(". . . Well written :)

Heavenly Muse said...

@ fantasies of a lifetimegood
smart choice of words i must say:-)
(thanks....)

Heavenly Muse said...

@ sakhshi
agreed ma'am..its alyaws easy to say NO...but for the people around us it can create an aura of rejection or sense of ignorance...

Tazeen said...

Saying No is so hard, they should conduct trainings on that .. i will sign up for that

Michelle Johnson said...

i've never considered No from this perspective before. thanks for sharing your ideas on this matter.

also thanks for stopping by my blog. always nice to see a fresh face. have a great day.

Jack said...

H M,

No is a very strong word indicating a lot of negativity. One must use it very judiously. Of course, it does not mean that we say yes to everything even if we do not like it, but we must learn to use NO with proper application of mind.

Take care

Heavenly Muse said...

@ jack
agreed sir..one should be very carefull while using such words...

Thousif Raza said...

I have read it before, but for sure hen i read it again here, i felt a change, a change to 'not marry' :P


take care and keep writing...........

Heavenly Muse said...

@T.R
what can i say....well why not to get married...